When Process Fails, the Board Falls.
A charitable organization — 1,500 people, 26 locations, thirty years of respected work — destroyed by what happened in its own boardroom. Every part of the collapse traces back to how the process was conducted.
The board had just evaluated a newly appointed CFO. The Vice-Chair led the process. Feedback was gathered from the executive team — all of it positive. The board met, discussed, and confirmed the appointment. By any measure, the process had run its course.
Then, one week later, everything unravelled. At what was supposed to be a development meeting, a group of directors who had said nothing during the evaluation suddenly raised concerns. Concerns they had never voiced when it mattered. A secret ballot was called. The vote went five to four against an appointment the board had already confirmed. The Vice-Chair — who had communicated the positive result to the CFO in good faith — resigned on the spot. Three independents followed him out. The five who remained couldn't govern alone. The organization was handed to a sister entity. It ceased to exist.
Every part of this collapse traces back to how the process was conducted. Objections withheld when they should have been heard. A settled decision reopened through back channels. A vote held behind closed doors after the formal stage had already concluded. Each step broke the basic contract of how directors are supposed to work together.
Professor Ludo Van der Heyden calls this "Newton's Law of Collaboration": Fair Process Leadership. When people trust the process, they stay committed to the outcome — even one that goes against them. When that trust is broken, commitment collapses. And so does everything else.
Fair Process Leadership rests on a tripod. Process is the hardware — the five stages through which decisions move: engaging, exploring, deciding, executing, evaluating. Values are the software — communication, clarity, consistency, changeability, and a culture of doing the right thing. Leadership is the humanware — the competence to hold process and values together under pressure. Remove any leg, and the structure falls. It can fall in eleven documented ways: five through absence of values, five through absence of process, and one — perhaps the most consequential — through absence of leadership.
This is what stays with me: nobody is naturally talented at fair process. It is a competence to be built — deliberately, over time, across the board as a whole. In four of the five process stages, effective leaders spend roughly 80% of their time asking, not telling. Only in the deciding stage does the ratio reverse. Most leaders instinctively do the opposite. They tell when they should listen, and hesitate when they should decide.
The question worth asking about any board is not whether it makes good decisions. It is whether its own process of decision-making would survive being tested.